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Inspired by Laurel Parnell, Ph.D. Attachment Focused EMDR, and, Tapping In: A Step-By-Step Guide to Activating Your Healing Resources Through Bilateral Stimulation
Tapping In is described as:
Imagining a resource
Evoking as much sensory information as possible so that you truly feel the resource within you (taste, touch, smell, sight, sound)
When it feels fully positive, add 6-12 slow, rhymic taps alternating right-left-right-left as though you're savoring a walk in nature. Taps may be a butterfly hug tapping on your shoulders, collar bone, upper arms, or elbows. Taps can also be on your thighs or marching in place or tapping your toes in your shoes.
Pause and ensure the experience is fully positive. If it feels it can strengthen more, add another short set.
Stop tapping if the experience spoils at all. We do not want Resource Tapping leading into free associating trauma reprocessing. If a resource becomes contaminated with traumatic material, use a Container to store the traumatic material and return to some other Resource to calm your system in the present moment.
Then, when you're in an experience when you want to call on a resource, you can activate the resource and tap it in using the same slow, rhythmic taps.
Types of Resources:
Resources for Comfort
Nurturing Figures
Body Safe Place
Comfort Memories
Food Memories
Music, Chants, Prayers, and Mantras
Sacred Place
Safe/Peaceful Place
Spiritual Figures
Your Circle of Inner Helpers (called Ally Oasis in DARe or Support Team)
Your Safe/Peaceful Place Through Drawing
Love Resources
Circle of Love
Heart as a Place of Refuge
Loving-Kindness Meditation
Those Who Love You
Those You Love
Resources for Peace and Calm
Calm and Peaceful Resource Person
Images from Nature
Memories of Feeling Peaceful
Resources for Empowerment
Boost Performance
Circle of Protection
Core Inner Strength
Courageous Figures
Images from Nature as Power Resources
Inner Mentor or Coach
Inner Support Team
Memories of Being Courageous
Memories of Being Creative
Memories of Being Powerful
Memories of Limit Setting
Memories of Overcoming Problems
Memories of Saying 'Yes'
Memories of Success
Other People Overcoming Difficulties
Others Who Can Say 'No'
Power Figures
Protective Adult Self
Protector Figures
Saying No, Setting Boundaries
Strengthening Successes
Your Actualized Goals
A Healthy You
Uplifting Resources
Beauty
Creativity
Experiences of Awe and Wonder
Favorite Things
Freedom and Expansion
Gratitude
Humor and Laughter
Inspiration
Joy
Precious Life Meditation
Spiritual and Wisdom Resources
Essential Spiritual Self
Higher power
Inner Mentor or Coach
Inner Support Team
Inner Wisdom Figures
Insights and Life Lessons
Sacred Place
Spiritual Experiences
Spiritual Figures
Spiritual Teachings
Wise Being
Resources for Healing, Illness, and Trauma
Grounded Breathing
Images of Letting Go, Expanding, or Opening
Hearing or Singing Self a Soothing Lullaby
Nurturing Figures
Peaceful Place
Protector Figures
Inner Wisdom Figures
Memories of Recovery
Positive Memories of Health and Wholeness
Healing Imagery
Encouraging or Reassuring Words
A Healthy You: Imagine Yourself Healthy and Whole
Higher Power
Wise Self
Body Safe Place
Image of Someone You Know or Heard of Recovering from Illness or Injury
"Although the world is very full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it."
|| Helen Keller